This article is inspired by a post from Prof. Anh Tho. You can find the link here: http://vuisongmoingay.blogspot.ch/20…/…/phep-la-that-su.html
Well, the truth is I have many fears. When I was a kid, I was panic if I got a bad mark. I am scared when my teacher told me to take my parents’ signatures. I am very scared and I fake it. Well, sometimes all the things go smoothly, but sometimes not. :). When I was at the twelve grade, my biggest fear is that I can not pass the entrance exam to go to the University. I can see it in my dream, in my vibrated fingers when I am doing my real exam. Now I am frightened by my thoughts that I am maybe left behind when others’s going forward.
I just translated an article from Ms. Anh Tho. You can find it here
The main idea of this article is feel blessed with everything that might come to your life even it is bad thing. Everything happens for a reason. Well, I read and read this article lots of time before translating it. And I wonder that maybe I can feel blessed with my fear because it tell me that I am a human being and I am not perfect. I read a research about the 5 stages of emotion when you struggle in something or when you are in vulnerable period.
The 1st stage: DENYING. (You deny the truth that you fail the exam, you deny the truth that you have a fear. You think that you shouldn’t have that feelings…)
The 2nd stage: ANGER. (I maybe feel anger with myself for having the fear.)
The 3rd stage: BARGAINING. (When I was a child, I often bargain with God. If I am behave then God will give my the good mark…Hee hee)
The 4th stage: DEPRESSION.
The 5th stage: ACCEPTANCE: When you accept the truth then it’s time for you to recover.
Then I think maybe I will accept my fear and share with my beloved friends in wordpress community. The truth is I hide my fear for a long long long time. Maybe sharing my fear is the way I throw it out the window, confront it and get over it.
And you? how about your fear? Tell me your story
Have a nice day,
NTH, Saturday, 6th Dec 2014 at 11:20 A.M.